“You should make the difference between knowledge and being wise! When you become wise, you will respect your body, your mind and your soul. When you become wise, your life will be controlled by your heart- not your head. You won’t sabotage yourself anymore, you own happiness, and your own love. You won’t carry all that guilt and you won’t judge yourself. From this moment on, all beliefs, which made you miserable, which made you fight with life, which made life seem hard will just disappear!”

I’ve always found it weird, when people claim that they suffer, because they are following their heart… truth is that they are in pain, because they follow their mind, their wrong beliefs… the limiting understandings…

Nobody has ever suffered, when he took the decision to follow his heart. Yes, the road might be long, you might lose some people, some opportunities, but in reality they were just not meant to accompany you on the road to your dreams!

More often than not, people give up on their most sacred desires, because they [Read more...]

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“Failure and defeat are temporary experience…”

Yesterday I came back home. I had a desire to write a couple posts for later this week, but I felt exhausted. Sometimes I also have moments, when exhaustion, weighs on my shoulders and I feel as if I have no strength to do anything… and I decided not to do anything! I picked up my favorite music to vocalize the silence of my evening, and I sunk into contemplation! At first sight, I spend a completely purposeless night, which turned out to be far from aimless!

All the memories, all the balance- “sheets”, that I made, reminded me how much I have changed… or at least how much my view for life and all the experiences that accompany it, has changed!

I made the conclusion, that sometimes we are stubborn students… and life has no choice, but to “cure” us from that stubbornness through disappointments! At times, my mind was overtook by memories, which made me feel weird… memories, which took me back, to periods of my life, when my heart was frozen with indecision and fear has settled in my soul! Moments, that I looked myself in the mirror, and in the reflection I saw a person filled with dissatisfaction, insecurity, pain and conquered by the illusionary reality!

Then, I suddenly came back here… in the present moment and I felt some kind of relief… relief from the fact that no future defeat, could have the strength to hurt me as deep as the disappointments from the past! You will ask why? [Read more...]

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“To call yourself soul soared, means to fancy yourself, that you are something better, something mighty and something more valuable, than other people. Those who are truly soul soared, don’t point it out… they just love people and life. They don’t call Life- God, don’t put names on Love… they just give away their love, unnoticeably!”

Lately I’ve noticed the tendency, that a lot of people “consider themselves soul soared”. They nag others how unenlightened they are, how big is the precipice between where they are, and where others stand.

At times I wonder if these people, really realize that in reality they are far from “soul soared” and that at times,  people that they look on with condescension, are actually on the upper stair of their self development, than those who consider themselves enlightened?

Why do I think so? [Read more...]

“I learned that silence isn’t always a treasure, but it is useful, when you want to say meaningful words, but there is not enough presence in the person standing in front of you!”

I love the topic about being alone… the loneliness that comes from within and the solitude that is just the physical absence of other people.

More often than not we mistaken being alone for being lonely!

I am the kind of a strange person, who has the “taint” of loving solitude!

Every day I have the need to get my own portion of silence, where I can hear everything… everything that happens inside of me!

Yesterday, I had a great conversation with “the friend with the different perspective” and this made me think about silence…

Do you know what I love the most about silence… that it reflects the emotions of those, who are present in this moment… if their inner world is in harmony, the silence will be in harmony as well… it will give more unity and understanding… if the inner world is shattered, then the silence could become terribly loud…

The screaming of your own insecurity, hatred and pain, will fill up the silence and make it unbearable…

Make it oppressive…

Silence is exactly this… the reflection of the presence… [Read more...]

Bella Falconi

The New Year just started, and with its beginning, probably most of you are full of enthusiasm to do wonders and change the world, change who they are and everything that did not please them during the past year! Everybody is making new year’s resolutions: “To lose 10 pounds”; “To work out more often”; “To eat healthier”; “To be more organized!”; “To take better care of my health!” and so on.

Did you make a New Year’s resolution?

I did not! I don’t make “New Year’s resolutions” anymore! And not because I am a mediocre person, who does not care what is gonna happen! I don’t set such goals, because [Read more...]